H is for...

Happiness:

Everyone is seeking happiness right? Worldly people are seeking happiness in this life; religious people are seeking happiness for the next life.

Well I guess I should say worldly people are seeking happiness in this life and hoping there isn't a next life while religious people are seeking happiness for the next life and hoping to have a little in this life too.

I think there is a lot of happiness around, but people are just blind to it. For some reason humans let negative feelings take precedence in their lives even though they seriously crave the positive ones.

Why? Why do we do that to ourselves??

Why is it so easy in a grey situation to focus on the black and forget that where there is grey... there must have been white.

Blue Skies

Smiling at me

Nothing but blue skies

Do I see...

Secrets

Salam 3alaikum

So I learned during my reading that one of a jobs of a Muslim Wife is to keep her husbands secrets.

If I write about some of our interactions here, am I telling his secrets? I intend to not reveal our identities, but some things I would like to talk about I'm not sure he would approve of me talking to my friends about face-to-face so does this apply if we are anonymous as well? I don't plan on anything disrespectful or uncovering his faults or anything, but there are things that I really need other women's advice about and my mother is not Muslim and I need good female guidance from other ladies who are facing situations like mine inshaAllah.

What do you think? I would really appreciate your point of view as I can't find any advice particular to this situation...

Jazakum Allah khair!!!

Sooo Weird

It is still completely weird for me to think of myself as being "married" and referring to my "husband" and stuff, HAHA!

Did you have this problem when you first got married??